Cat Week Concludes with a Tribute
If you're not into cats, that's cool. But, you'll want to skip this blog post. 'Cause I'm going to go on and on (and on) about a cat that I loved dearly and had to say good-bye to this week.
Minou ("mee-noo") is French for kitty.

She appears in my book:

She inspired a Sundance film:
And if you search #minouball on instagram, you'll find a cache of photos like this:

Minou was a full-grown abandoned stray that was starving when I found her. I took a photo of her (the same one that appears on the movie poster above) just before I fed her for the first time, because I knew she'd be my cat forever after that.
For thirteen years, Minou was my closest, and most faithful companion.
She was an unusually gentle and un-cat-like cat. Her peaceful demeanor was a huge comfort to me. She would often just sit close by while I worked, gently purring, with her eyes half-closed like a meditating sadhu...
Every morning, as I sat at my computer frantically working on Sublime Stitching, wondering how I'd pay bills, how I'd meet deadlines, how I'd manage it all...she'd take a spot in my lap, and every now and then just calmly look up at me:
I was so tickled (and comforted) by this, I began making a daily photo log of these Minou Mornings.

This is what I'm going to miss the most about her. That look.

I want to thank all of my friends who helped me take care of Minou over the years during my hectic schedule and many travels. Thank you for the phone calls and emails of condolences. Thank YOU who have known Minou via Sublime Stitching and inquired about her and known she was a part of my life.
A few months ago when she was first very sick, a friend inquired about her, knowing how worried I was. He said this:
"they are very small and require so little care but take up a great deal of your heart."x - x - x







Marilee
Dear Jenny,
I’m so sorry for your loss! I know how heartbreaking it is to lose a loved pet. Condolences.
Marilee RD
Jacqui
So sorry to hear about your beautiful kitty. My very first cat (really my Memere’s cat, since I was only 6 or so) was named Minou. Very unlike your sweet little girl, my Minou was a angry old lady who only liked me and my Memere and would scratch anyone else who bothered her. Lol. Regardless, she is responsible for my great love of animals. I currently have a demanding and loud orange tiger named Kung-Fu, who, when not bossing me around, loves to curl up on my lap and around my hand while I’m trying to manuver the mouse on my laptop. : ) Good Luck with the new kiten! : )
Julie T
Dear Jenny: Sending you love in sincere sympathy.
julie
nelly
I am so sorry for you. I lost mine in april (he was over 20 ) it was (and it is still) very painful. I love cats and I was very upset. I have now 2 little kittens that I love (even if my cat is still in my heart) they bring so much joy in your life.
Devi
I’m so sorry for your loss! At least you can rest assured that you gave her a good, long, pampered life. She knew you’re in good paws with little Cleo and felt safe to pass the torch.
13bodies
I’m so sorry. You’ve lost a member of your family. I had to put my Bogie cat down last year, but he’s still curled up in my heart, smacking my ventricles when I annoy him.
Mignon
Hi, So sorry to here of your loss. Minou looked to be one of those very special fur friends. We recently (April)lost a very special friend – Davie. He was a devon rex who was surrendered to the animal welfare when his owner was put in a nursing home. Looking at the pic’s of Minou, especially the 1’s on your lap, reminds me of our ‘old man’ & how much we miss him. :`( Mignon
margarita
I am so sorry. Having just lost my friend of 19 years it takes time to heal but not forget. She will always be with you.
Wendi G.
All of my animals come from shelters so basically they were abandoned by their owners. I honestly believe that these and other deserted animals know you have saved them and become thee most loving and devoted pets. I think it’s their way of saying "thank you. "
Raele
Your story of Minou brought tears to my eyes. It was also therapeutic to share, to have a window into your fellow feeling. I was late reading this post, late catching up to emails and blogs, because on the very day yours was written, I was holding our 17-yr old kitty boy as he went gently into the deepest sleep.
He was unlike any cat we have ever had, and we’ve collectively had dozens. The sadness made me nauseous for days, and I’ve never seen my husband so upset over any other thing. What a gift these beautiful creatures are! Of what love they give evidence. The thought of the love behind their existence comforts me, and I hope will comfort you, as well.
From the photos it’s clear: Minou must’ve been one of the happiest cats ever! And that is nice to think about. I’m sorry for your loss, and I applaud your willingness to keep your heart open wide for another kitty friend, who looks to be another darling sweetheart!
Candace
What a lovely tribute to your beautiful friend. Such a sweet little face you will always remember. I’m so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you Jenny!
Olivia
I’m so sorry for your loss. I, too, have experienced this kind of pain and want to offer my most sincere condolences. From your pictures, it’s very obvious the two of you loved each other very much which, in the end, is what matters the most.
kin of kitties
Sweet Jenny ~ my heart goes out to you…and too well do I understand your loss…like losing a part of you… How comforting to know that she had you to love her all those years…I’m sure she didn’t want to go… May her beautiful spirit live on as you enjoy the life and love in your new little one…
Renee O-C
What a lovely tribute to Minou, Jenny. Thanks so much for sharing this with all of us. My heart goes out to you. I know how sad these partings are — a howlingly bittersweet price to pay for opening our hearts to these amazing companions. Wishing you comfort in your memories of those Minou Mornings, and everything else about her.
Debbie
I’m so sorry to hear your sad news. I have a minou also, except his name is Romeo. I have never known such a devoted kittylove as his. I can’t imagine saying goodbye to him. Your Minou was a beautiful girl. Again, I’m sorry for your loss.
When I wanted to start embroidering again after about 15 year of not, the first thing I bought was your kitty patterns and your kitchen towels. I stitched a kitty that looked like Romeo and one that looked like my other kittylove Koocha. That was a few years ago and I’ve done tons of stuff since, but it’s still my favorite thing because it’s my kitties :)
jen
i am incredibly, terribly sorry for your loss. what a sweet kitty. i have felt the pain of losing furry friends, and i cry whenever i hear about someone losing one of theirs. you 2 were very lucky to have each other.
Tim
I discovered this sad news recently checking out the “Goliath” facebook page. So sorry for the loss of your beloved and famous cat. I loved the movie.
God, I cried when I listen to the title track today.
“Gone, now I’m gone, I’d like for all my freinds
to raise up their heads in song.”
RIP little Minou.
Lori
Hugs……so hard, just so hard…..
Jeannie
It’s so very hard to lose those sweet, special little creatures that we have protected for so long. You loved her and she loved you and it was all good. That is the very best anyone can do.
Tess
What an enlightened smile your Minou has! It’s amazing the pawprint they leave on our hearts as they pass through our lives. May Minou’s grace soften the pain of your loss.
Heidi
I’m so sorry for your loss. I know I will be a mess when my cats pass on.
Maidel
Crying tears for Minou and you, I leaned over to pet Moon and boob-typed on my iPad, “qqqqq,” little Q’s like why’s. I can never think what to say, so that seemed fitting. Why can’t they stay longer? Hug.
Terie
A beautiful relationship that will not be forgotten.
Sara
That breaks my heart, I’m so sorry for your loss. The passing of the puppies in my life over the years is always as hard to bear as the loss of a human.. Constant companions, always willing to listen;), family, snuggle buddy… So much more than just a “pet”.
Jessica Dougherty
So very sorry for your loss. Pets are so wonderful & loving…impossible not to miss so dearly!